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Is your first date set up well?

Eight questions about where, when and how you are meeting. You get a checklist tailored to your answers, with the changes that matter most at the top.

About the date

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Where are you meeting?
When?
Getting there and back
Have you seen them on a live video call?
Is their identity verified where you met?
Does a friend know the plan?
Talking for less than a week?
Have they asked for money, a code, or to leave the app?

Your plan

Prepare a little

Worth a few minutes of preparation. Here is what would help most.

  1. 1

    Tell a friend who, where and when, and agree a time to check in. A 6on7 check-in link does this in thirty seconds.

  2. 2

    Do a short video call first. Five minutes on camera settles most impersonation.

  3. 3

    Check how they are verified. On 6on7 the identity level is shown on their profile; elsewhere, ask for a live video call instead.

  4. 4

    Keep your own way home sorted, and top up your phone battery before you leave.

  5. 5

    Watch your own drink and keep it in sight. Stay within your usual limit.

  6. 6

    Decide your exit line beforehand. Leaving early is always allowed, and no explanation is owed.

  7. 7

    Keep your home address, workplace and full surname to yourself until you trust them.

This is guidance, not a prediction. A well-prepared date can still go wrong, and you can leave at any point.

On 6on7 you can turn the plan into a check-in your friend can follow, and compare notes with the scam checker.

Free first-date safety checklist | 6on7