Free tools, any app
No account, and nothing you enter is stored.
Scam message checker
Paste a message from any app and see the romance-scam red flags it shows, each explained.
First-date safety checklist
Answer eight questions about an upcoming date and get a tailored checklist to send a friend.
Profile red-flag check
Tick what felt off about a profile and see why each signal matters.
Video-call check
Tick what happened on a first video call and see whether the person matches their profile.
After-date reflection
Tick how a date felt and get a calm read on whether to see them again.
Pressure check
Tick what a match is asking of you and see whether it is pressure.
Dating burnout check
Tick what dating feels like lately and get a kind read on whether a break would help.
Boundary scripts
Ready-to-send words for saying no kindly, or firmly: declining a date, photos, money or an app switch.
Opening message builder
Three opening messages built from what you noticed on a profile, in the tone you choose.
Friend code phrases
Three innocent-sounding phrases to agree with a friend: I'm fine, call me, and come get me.